When we were young, the amount of happiness in our lives was high and the amount of sadness was low, but gradually as we started to get older, our happiness started to decrease and the amount of sadness started to increase. But why do we have to do this?
We never ask ourselves that question. And if I do, I can avoid it with an answer. Never ever wonder what the real thing is in the deep. So in this post today I will try to find out the reason for you, so let's get started.
When you were young, just being a mom was enough to make you happy, but when you were a little older you needed to have some friends with you to be happy. Then when I got older, I needed to have a good girlfriend with my mother and friends.
Then when I got older I needed to have a good job with them. Then a pricey car, a good house continued to grow as we seek more and more to keep us happy. And the more we seek to add, the more laughter from our lives, the joy began to subside. And grief continued to increase.
If we think deeply, it is not a problem for us to understand that, when we were happy as a child, the thing that was so rare in our lives was explication. Once I was happy with my parents and then my friend Ed, then as I grew older, the expectoration towards life continued to grow and happy, the joy just diminished.
That is, if we compare LIFE to a scale, for example, scales have Expectations and HAPPINESS. Expectations increase as happiness decreases, and on the other hand, happiness increase as Expectations decreases
There are two types of this explication.
The first one is the Outer World Expectation
The second is Inner World Expectation
Outer World Expectation means everything you do to someone outside or from a situation outside. For example, your boss wants you to scream a little, or your girlfriend or boyfriend may love you a little more or suppose you live where all the people in that city think of you as good people. They fall into the Outer World Expectation. Expectations that is absolutely worthless and rather harmful.
Because your boss will not scream at you less than you ask, your girlfriend will not love you too much if you ask; if your boss thinks you are doing well, then being very active at work will be a little less angry. You have no control over it. Think of everyone as a good person. Now the government has announced that good people will be rewarded.
Now that the question is, then I should not put any Expectation on myself? But how can we improve in life if there is no hope in life!
Then I say this is a very big misconception, the greater the hope in life, the more it can be improved. If there is hope in life, can everyone improve? There are people on earth who have never hoped in their life to reach the place where they are today. But they got there.
Think of Bill Gates, the founder of the world's richest Microsoft, has he ever hoped in his life that he would be the world's richest but he did just that. Can everyone be the best singer or can everyone be the best artist?
Expectations for this explication, with no success associated with those sought. In my opinion, there is more hostility to be had. So to be happy in life, firstly, it does not make sense to keep Outer World Expectations; they are not profitable in any way, but always harmful. Could Otherwise, they are harmful. Now it is entirely up to you, even if you do not want to have the expressions or the expectations, the wants, the aspirations in your life?
If you still want to get the consolation inspiration you want in life, get it, remember one thing, your life's joys and sorrows are about to change. So be Careful. All the best be good always
